Love is the most misunderstood thing in this world.Most people believe love is beautiful or love is 'good'.Love however can be just as good as heaven or as bad as hell depending on how you use it.
Let me give you an omnipresent example. A mother and a son* relationship-the most selfless,most giving relationship in this world,nothing comes above it can become bad for the son. A mother finds it hard to see any difficulty/discrepancy in the son's behaviour.According to her,all is fine but the world knows all sons are not the best people.Criminals have moms too. A mother usually never looks at the contents of a dish her son likes.She is too preoccupied by the happiness on her son's face that she completely ignores that the dish might be giving her son's heart or pancreas a hard time.
People go on ranting about how love is the most selfless thing in this world.Although there is nothing more selfish in this world than love itself.Period.
Love intensity ranking :
# 1 : Self-love or your love for yourself. Hence,you are your biggest friend or enemy.
# 2 : A mother and a child love . The person,after you,who has the highest effect on you.
# 3 : All other love.
* 'son' is just an example here and is completely replaceable by 'daughter'.
